Tuesday, February 18, 2025
Tuesday, February 11, 2025
The Covenant of Water - Abraham Verghese
I spent approximately three weeks inside the pages of this wonderful book. Within the first five pages I realized the strength of the story would be wrapped around female characters. Now after finishing the book, I realize why females.
I have learned how female family members sacrifice so much for their families. Even in giving birth, prior to modern medicine, throughout history they have risked their lives for continuance of the family lineage. And they sacrifice out of love and duty. I once heard or read somewhere that "mother's die so that we may live!" Without a woman's maternal love and nurturing ways within a home, there would be no connections within a family, nor continuity of passing on culture and traditions to the next generation. This includes how to run a household, raise children, manner as a wife.
Through women, water, and love, everything in "The Covenant of Water" is connected. Men definitely play their roles as providers, but it is the women who carry the family torch from one generation to the next. And this is a multigenerational story. Without women there'd likely be no identifying where we come from or who we inherited looks and character from. Without the women to provide all they provide to a family; we'd all be orphans with untraceable beginnings and faithless futures. We'd be separated from our beginnings and endings.
The water in this story likely represents home. It provides sustenance for basic human needs but also can threaten family members who carry a common family trait known as "the Condition."
Here is where the story presents so much tragedy for one family to bear and overcome. And as with great writing, the reader is pulled in to survive along with the family its many challenges. Life is akin to the Monsoon season. On the one hand it provides much needed rainwater crucial for agriculture after a long, dry season. On the other hand, it causes devastating floods, damaging infrastructure and homes while threatening lives.
The hardback novel, inspired by memories of the author's mom, is 715-pages long. But every page seems to add something that connects either past, present or future events and/or persons. Everything is creatively connected; however, one must have patience as well as a willingness to learn about a foreign culture's ways and history. To rush through this novel is to cheat yourself out of all it offers. Oddly, I felt myself a bit sad as I approached its final chapters. I knew the ending was near and yet I wasn't ready to part with the story
The author utilizes his medical background almost to a fault in the telling of this story. I however found it a very ingenious writing method, cojoining the characters with the very human medical conditions that arise. Descriptions of medical diagnosis, disease, surgical procedures and such are more detailed than some readers might wish to read about. Although much of the medical information might go over many readers heads, it feels relative and adds to the credibility of certain scenes.
It is all connected.
I enjoyed reading "The Covenant of Water." I enjoyed what it taught me about India and how everyday peoples living in a different era and society dealt with the human conditions of life.
The more different we see ourselves as cultures, the more alike we see ourselves as human beings. Whether living in 1900AD South India, or 2025AD America. It is all humanly connected.
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Eagles Dominate Chiefs in SBLIX
Philly Special = Pressure - Pressure - Pressure
How Eagles won Super Bowl 59: Vic Fangio's defense dominates Patrick Mahomes, Chiefs
It was simply the best one-sided Superbowl performance imaginable. Home viewers got to watch how off the mark expert predictions can be. Everyone knew the greatness of Chiefs QB Patrick Mahomes. Everyone knew he and the Chiefs were a win away from a Historical Record three straight Superbowl wins. Not Everyone knew if the Eagles could thwart history while facing the same team who downed them in Superbowl LVII just two years ago.
As the iconic ESPN sportscaster Chris Berman is known for saying:
"And, That's Why They Play The Games"
Thursday, January 30, 2025
Raiders New Head Coach
Oh Well! It could've been better. But could've also been dreadfully worse. I'll take the chewing gum king, seventy-three-year-old Pete Carroll as new Raiders head coach, over many other candidates. Why not? He's got Super Bowl winning experience, team leadership pedigree, and is a stabilizing force walking the sidelines while chomping down on gum like it's the opponent's playbook.
If Pete can pull off a Raiders rebuild/resurgence, then I might forgive him for not running Marshawn Lynch and giving away a Super Bowl victory to the Patriots. The one red flag I see with hiring Pete is his age. I believe he will be the oldest to ever coach an NFL team.
Sure, they say he's in good physical shape and all, but taking over the Raiders means he'll be a target for owners, media, referees, and just about anyone outside of Raider Nation. It's asking a lot for any seventy-four-year-old to endure such scrutiny. Because when it comes to the team wearing Silver & Black, the playing field is slanted uphill, and the odds are never in your favor.
If the Seahawks gig felt like coaching in the Emerald City of Oz, then this new venture for Pete will be an awakening like no other. Its where old friends turn enemies, and sabotage lurks around every corner of the NFL landscape. It's where you watch and wonder how a Raiders strip sack becomes an incomplete pass, or an interception becomes pass interference. And it starts before the season even begins, where the league's game and travel scheduling for the Raiders is always suspect.
So, rest up and hydrate old man. You are gonna need every ounce of whatever youthful elixir you been feeding that senior body and mind of yours.
As the fiery sign emblazoned above the entrance to Hell warns:
"Abandon Hope All Ye Who Enter Here"
Raiders Update: - Chip Kelly leaving Ohio State to become Raiders' OC - ESPN
Wednesday, January 29, 2025
Peace of Mind
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Peace of Mind by Joshua Loth Liebman--Inspirational articles from Living Life Fully
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Thursday, January 09, 2025
Batavia - by Peter Fitzsimons
Raiders End 2024 (4-13) - Make it Rain
They say crops, people, and organizations must go through humbling periods of storms before success rewards their labors. We been laboring a long time, Raider Nation. We been humbled by failed crops, devastating injuries, castoff and deserting all-pros, and a dizzying coaching carousel that just won't end.
We are saddled with Buzzards Luck; "can't kill nothing and nothing's dying." It's hard enough to win in the NFL. But add to the fray Raiders organization bad decisions and self-inflicting setbacks and winning becomes a far and away mirage. Like a promising dream you wake up from just as the going gets good.
Here we are again, making team leadership changes in coaching and management. Antonio Pierce and Tom Telesco are out. The Raiders are out of the running for drafting a quarterback at No.1 or No.2. And it just so happens we are in one of the toughest divisions in the NFL (AFC West), with three teams making the playoffs. Happy New Years 2025 Raiders!
How the heck am I gonna watch the NFL playoffs when my beloved Silver & Black are lumped in with the Buzzards of the football world. Sure, I'll wear my colors proudly should I choose to attend a Super Bowl party. But Damn! Damn! Damn! it gets so old watching the same old retooling scenarios playout during or after a losing season. I want some consistency on and off the field for the Raiders.
There. I got it out of me. Thanks, Mike Singletary, for setting the table with a memorable winner's quote. Maybe when all is said and done, Raiders new minority owner Tom Brady brings in his pal Bill Belichick to jumpstart a new era of winning. As of today, reports are Bill has no plans to leave UNC. We'll just have to wait and see about that.
Meanwhile Raiders fans, keep your head up. We've been through this before. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. Buzzards are predators. The one thing you'll never see a Buzzard do is give up on small prey. So, until the Raiders return to their glorious ways of consistently winning and dominating in the NFL, stay hungry while feeding on lesser teams.
Win, Lose, or Tie!
Friday, January 03, 2025
A Gift For Cousin Cheryl
A Gift for my cousin Cheryl, in memory of Aunt Kizziah and so many other Black Women who raised us.
I was so captured by coming across this book. It brought out in me the memories of aunts, grandmothers, and other community women on their way to or coming from church. My mother raised us Episcopalian, but me and my siblings sometimes attended the Baptist church with relatives. The difference between the two churches was like night and day. Episcopals chant Amen, Baptists shout AMEN!
As a young boy, some of those differences stuck with me as I learned of the many ways to worship the Lord. Baptists had a soulful band and gospel choir, matrons dressed in angelic white, a sweating & shouting preacher, a responsively shouting congregation, and folks spasmodically falling out while being filled with the Holy Spirit. There was much to take in during those visits to the Baptist church. Enough to make a young Episcopalian have dreams of heaven or nightmares of hell. But there's one memory that I'd almost completely forgotten about until seeing and opening the book "Crowns: Portraits of Black Women in Church Hats."
Seeing all the Black Women in Church Hats gave such elegance and pride to the Baptist church service. Everyone, men, women, and children wore their best outfits to church. But the many eye-catching Hats being worn by almost every woman in church stamped the service with a respect and dignity I had never quite felt in a religious service. It almost made a child like me feel as if he was being welcomed into heaven. It felt like sitting in a royal hall maybe seen in a movie or on television. Like the "Land of Oz" perhaps.
Every hat had its own unique character, and yet without any conformity seemed to give its wearer honorary membership to a spiritually uplifted women's society. Every woman looked radiant, appearing joyous and dignified.
It really was like entering a kingdom of some sort where all subjects are aware of and expressing reverence to their King. I always wondered what tradition it was that inspired all those hat-wearing women to sit in church without removing their head gear. The men removed their hats when in church out of religious respect, why not the women? And why were there no standards/restrictions set for types of hats being worn.
Coming from the Episcopal church I had always associated church with conservative attire, and a place to fit in, not stick out. Many outfits worn in the Baptist church were bright and colorful, like those seen at a festival or party. Some of the women's hats would likely have drawn glares of criticism in our conservative church. They would have been looked upon as being over-the-top and perhaps gaudy (too loud) for a religious service. Some hats had glitter, some feathers or a netted veil. Some hat brims were slouched low, partially hiding one's face, while other brims might be wider than the wearer's shoulders. And then there was the chic, elegant hat towering upward and slightly outward upon the head, like a Queen's Crown, i.e. Nefertiti Headdress.
After a few visits to the Baptist church the culture shock wore off and I began to understand how church is a celebratory expression for folks' minds, bodies and souls in honor of their Lord. The clothes worn are simply the icing on the cake. You need not go to church service wearing dark, gloomy clothing with a glum facial expression and attitude as if attending a funeral. Church is a celebration of God and the human spirit, and nobody does it quite like the Baptist Church.
Here, some fifty-plus years later, after opening and perusing through pages of this book, I am filled with that early impression I had of beautiful Black Women wearing Church Hats. An impression of royalty and dignified honor while expressing spiritual devotion in the House of the Lord.
A huge smile creases my 62-year-old face as pictures and testimonials in the book fill me with that familiar spirit of church and black community. The many unanswered questions of a young boy finally put to rest by the wise, revealing memories these hat-wearing church women reminisce on in this extraordinary book.
What Are Church Hats?
For many congregations, they’re more than just an elegant accessory.
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In many Christian congregations across the country, statement-making hats are as synonymous with Sunday mornings as robed choristers and gospel readings. For writer Craig Marberry, who grew up in a Chicago Church of God in Christ congregation, the spectacular toppers were just part of the sanctuary topography. "In my church, women only wore three types of hats," he says. "Large hats, larger hats, and 'why'd you have to sit in front of me?' hats."
The pastor's grandson took the tradition for granted as a boy. However, Marberry gained a new appreciation for the fabulous millinery of his youth when he partnered with photographer Michael Cunningham to produce a tome telling the stories of church-hat-wearing Southern women. Filled with portraits, their book, Crowns: Portraits of Black Women in Church Hats, published in October 2000.
"I realized that church hats weren't merely fashion accessories," he says. "They are an expression of faith, as well as a celebration of fashion. Every woman has a different and compelling story about what church hats mean to them."
The Origins Of Wearing Hats In Church
Historically, men have taken their hats off when entering an indoor space as a sign of respect. But for men removing their caps in churches, there's also a biblical reason—a passage from one of Paul's letters to the Corinthians. In 1 Corinthians 11:7, Paul writes that men should remove their hats while worshiping "as he is the image and glory of God."1
The tradition of women wearing church hats has its roots in that same biblical scripture. In 1 Corinthians 11:5–13, the apostle declares women should cover their heads during worship to honor God. "In many religious denominations, women cover their heads for worship as a sign of respect for God and the church hierarchy," Marberry says. "But Black women alone have interpreted that edict with singular flair."
There's an important cultural element at play, too, he notes. "African Americans oftentimes think we were severed from our African culture, our heritage, because of slavery," the author says. "But there are a lot of things we do without realizing that they're connected to the motherland." Hats are one of them. "Many African societies believe that the soul is housed in the head, not in the heart, and therefore you adorn the head as a way of honoring it," he says.
Hats And The Civil Rights Movement
Wearing hats in church grew in popularity during the Harlem Renaissance and throughout the early 20th century. They became status symbols for the growing Black middle class. During the Civil Rights Movement, women leaders often marched in their church hats as a symbol of dignity.
"If you look at the photos of Civil Rights marches from the '60s, you'll see women wearing church hats: Dorothy Height, Coretta Scott King, and countless others," says Marberry. "Even Rosa Parks, the mother of the Civil Rights Movement, had on a hat the day that she refused to give up her seat to a white man."
Church hats, in other words, are a proud declaration of who you are, how you worship, and what you stand for. And the grander the hat, the better.
The Future Of Church Hats
Shortly before they finished shooting portraits and conducting interviews for their book, Marberry realized that they hadn't yet visited a Church of God in Christ, his childhood denomination, which is known for especially flamboyant hats. They visited a congregation in Greensboro, North Carolina, where he lived at the time. There, they showed the women some photographs of the other hat-wearing ladies set to appear in the book. One flipped through the photos, seemingly unimpressed. "I said, 'What's wrong? You don't like the photographs?'" Marberry recalls. "And she said, 'No, it's not that. Those are Baptist hats, honey.'"
And while these women of older generations may feel closer to God depending on the height and splendor of their hats, Marberry notes that younger church women he interviewed don't necessarily feel the same attachment to them, citing that they're uncomfortable or mess up their hair.
"Unfortunately, it's a tradition that's dying out with the current hat queens," Marberry says. "But I won't lose faith."
Crowns: Portraits of Black Women in Church Hats
Tuesday, December 31, 2024
Classic - *she'll never burn down your garage*
Mere words just don't do this classic car justice. She says more in her body shape, colors, and overall character than any modern-day diva. Eat your heart out Tesla!